Membership

Standard membership is free. Once approved, you can RSVP to member events, manage admission and tickets, take courses, and join the Commons.

How it works

  1. Read the rules

    Read the Venue Rules & Participant Agreement. The application includes a short rules check.

  2. Apply

    Plan on about ten to fifteen minutes. Your login is created when you submit so you can follow the application from your account.

  3. Review

    A person reads every application. If we need context before deciding, we may send you a follow-up question.

  4. RSVP

    Once approved, member events open up in your account.

Supporter memberships

Optional monthly plans for eligible returning members. They are never required for ordinary membership.

Supporter

$5 off Standard events for an individual or $10 off on a couple plan; $5 off Kinky Game Night per covered member; RSVP and waitlist priority.

$15 / $25 couple

Patron

25% off Standard events; $5 off Reduced; $10 off Premium; 50% off Kinky Game Night; $5 birthday-month discount; higher RSVP and waitlist priority.

$30 / $45 couple

Keyholder

Standard events and Kinky Game Night included; $10 off Reduced; $15 off Premium; $10 birthday-month discount; highest RSVP and waitlist priority.

$50 / $75 couple

You can join after attending Meet the Dungeon, After Dark, or a Sanctum Eros play party. If you already qualified under an earlier plan, you keep that eligibility. Manage plans in your account.

Apply for membership

Already approved? Sign in instead. If you can’t get in, use “Trouble signing in” on the sign-in screen.

About you

Applying with a partner? You each fill out your own application and get your own login. Your accounts can be linked afterward.

Are you applying alongside a partner?
Do you have FetLife?
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